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Hey, everybody, it's dimple.

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And I am recording this episode on Christmas Eve.

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I wanted to take a moment to wish you guys a very happy and magical holiday season.

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And if you do celebrate Christmas, wishing you a very Merry Christmas,

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and I hope that you take some time off to spend with your friends and

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family and your little loved ones, your little puppies and your kittens

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so, all right, so let's get down to it.

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So episode four starts with.

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With Charlotte and she is in a bakery slash coffee shop and she's on her

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cell phone and she is calling to confirm Harry who's her husband.

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His colonoscopy and then she's getting ready to go meet her friend, Lisa.

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So she grabs her a coffee and Lisa's walking down the street towards

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Charlotte and Charlotte is walking down the street towards Lisa.

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And what's funny is they both got each other coffee.

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So that's cute because it shows like, you know what, they're

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off to like they're opposite.

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Good start when it comes to friendship because they both care.

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So here's the interesting thing Charlotte says, oh yeah, we should,

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you know, we should have you guys over.

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And Lisa was like, oh, okay.

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How about Thursday?

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And Charlotte's like, um, Thursday, you mean like the day after tomorrow?

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And she's like, oh, I understand if it's short notice.

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And then, and then of course Charlotte's like, oh no, no, it's fine.

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Because Charlotte is really trying really hard.

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To impress this new character, Lisa, and she wants to be friends with her.

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And she also, you know, wants to be real friends.

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Like not just like, okay, they're moms and, and that, but she

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wants to be friends with her.

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And I think she looks at Lisa and she's like, oh my God.

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Lisa so fabulous.

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And it used to be that way one day.

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And I feel like I can just live vicariously through her.

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That might be part of it.

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You know, a little bit of that.

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I mean, Lisa is kind of fabulous.

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so Lisa is a boss cause when they were talking about, and they're talking to

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the other group of moms and the moms like, oh Charlotte, you dropped the ball.

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And she stood up for Charlotte and she was like, Charlotte never

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drops the ball, check your spam.

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So I liked that because I think that when you have friends,

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they should stand up for.

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And, you know, those are people that are going to be your writer, dye people.

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They're going to be your real friends.

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And a lot of times in real life, you know, friends don't stand up for their friends.

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And the truth is they're not real friends to begin with.

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I had a friend too, and she did the same thing.

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She just never stood up for me, but you know what, we're not friends anymore.

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And I realized she wasn't a real friend.

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So there you go.

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All right.

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So now we are going to talk about.

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The dinner.

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So now Charlotte's going to plan this, dinner and she's like freaking out because

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she realizes, oh my God, Lisa is going to be, you know, the only black couple there.

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And I can't like, let Lisa think that I don't really have black friends.

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So I'm going to start trying to invite other people over.

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And her husband, Harry says, Hey, why don't you invite the neighbor enforced?

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So obviously.

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Charlotte's all over that she starts texting and hunt just one time, but

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more than once, because she's acting at a desperation at this point, she's

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got very little time to put this dinner party together and she has

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put a lot of pressure on herself.

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I think it's her who put the pressure.

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I think Lisa would be totally fine coming to her party.

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And if she was the only.

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you know, colored person there.

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I don't think she would care, but I think it's just how

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Charlotte is thinking about it.

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And you know, Charlotte's going to do things her way.

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So she goes, and she tries to get, you know, other people to come.

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And then Lisa comes back during.

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Oh, I'm so sorry.

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I forgot that we had tickets to, I don't know what it was, the opera, whatever.

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And she's like, it can't make the dinner party on Thursday.

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I hope you understand.

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And I can tell at that moment and you guys can probably tell too

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that Charlotte was a bit relieved.

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She's like, Thank God.

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Yeah.

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And because she's like, oh, no rush.

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By the way.

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Like, yeah, like there's no rush, you know, we'll do it another time because

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Charlotte's like, Ooh, I can breathe.

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But Lisa is having a get together for her husband's birthday party at our place.

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So we're going to talk about that a little bit later on,

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and let's talk about Miranda.

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So Miranda gets home and she smells like weed.

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So Brady's like you wreak of weed and she's like, Listen, I'm not

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caffeinated enough for this conversation.

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And what she really means is I'm not buzzed enough or drunk enough

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for this conversation, because we all know that Miranda's just looking

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for the drinks wherever she goes.

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And she is like, you know what?

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I need a couple of drinks before you come and have this conversation with me.

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So back off.

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Yeah, there's that Rambo and Miranda.

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There you go.

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And so on the last episode, you will remember that Carrie was, you

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know, walking down the street and instead of going to her, primary

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residence, she went back to her old.

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And she back, she went back to her old place and she decided to sleep there.

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And in the morning she's like, oh, I need coffee.

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Of course.

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Right.

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And then there's this coffee maker.

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That's probably from the 1980s.

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just looked really old.

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And of course it malfunctioned and coffee was all over the place.

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So Carrie.

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Decides to take a walk in that neighborhood and go to the store that she

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used to go to, to go get herself a coffee.

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And the guy that is, you know, the cashier or the owner, he's like, oh my God,

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Carrie, I haven't seen you in so long.

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It's good to see you.

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How are you?

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How has Mary.

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And she was like, well, he died.

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Um, so it was very matter of fact.

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And the guy was really sweet and he felt bad for Carrie and he's

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like, oh, the coffee's on me.

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And by the way, take a bond as well.

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and he sent her off on her way

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and then Carrie walks into our apartment and then she sees the Peloton and she's.

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Stops and she's just staring and that's because she thought

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that he would be there that Mr.

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Big would be on the Peloton.

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And she was just so used to seeing him.

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And that was really a tough moment for her.

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And then she decides that she's going to give the Peloton to the

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doorman, which I don't blame her because of there's something around.

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In your apartment, that's going to remind you of someone that you

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truly loved and that you lost.

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You probably don't want to have, those memories.

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And so she decided to give the Peleton to the doorman and she

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also hired a realtor named SEMA, and she decided, you know what?

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I don't want to live here anymore.

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I'm not comfortable.

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I feel like it's haunted.

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And you know, it's not the same, Mr.

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Big isn't here.

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But.

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I have all of these memories in this apartment of me and Mr.

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Big, and I just need a fresh start and you know what?

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I can't blame Carrie for that.

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I think it's going to be better for her.

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If she can get a fresh start and she can get herself into a new place

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where she doesn't have all of those memories, because it's going to be

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really tough every time she walks into.

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You know that closet or even to go to the shower and that's going

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to remind her of the moment that she walked in and she saw Mr.

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Big on the ground having a heart attack.

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I mean, that's going to be traumatic you guys.

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So, let's hope that the SEMA realtor gets her place sold fast.

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And speaking of SEMA, let's say that SEMA made quite the grand

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entrance on and just like that.

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So you see.

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Are you see her car pull up with her driver and it's, you know, high class,

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you see her car pull up with a driver and she's in her Mercedes and she's got

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her driver, the door opens the cigarette butt drops on the floor, and then she

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steps on it with her amazing heels.

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And then she comes out and her outfit is the bomb.

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And she doesn't walk.

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You guys, she kind of prances.

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I feel like she's got this like whole confidence thing going on.

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And she's kinda like a bad-ass powerful woman.

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And I kind of like that about her.

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And I think that in a way that's exactly how Carrie used to be.

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And Carrie lost some of that, like in the new series of just like that.

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But when Carrie was, you know, in sex in the city, Carrie had this confidence.

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It's like the way she walked, the way she was going to places.

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And I don't know about you guys.

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I don't know if I see that walk anymore.

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I think that walk is gone.

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And even if she had part of that walk, I think after she lost Mr.

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Big, that walk is definitely gone, but this SEMA character, right.

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Let's talk about her.

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So she walks in.

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And she's looking around and she's, you know, saying, oh, this is beige.

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And it has to go in this table.

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It has to go.

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So, you know, is like a action kind of woman.

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She's a doer.

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She's like, okay, we are going to change this whole thing around.

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I'm going to bring in my people, take all those furniture out.

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We're going to restage it.

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And so Siemens talking about everything that has to go, and she's

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like, buyers, aren't that complex.

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They're like dogs with money.

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So that is funny that she said that because okay.

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So they're not that complex.

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And basically she's saying, just get rid of what I'm telling you and

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listen to me and it'll all be okay.

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We will get your place sold.

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All right, SEMA, get the job done, girlfriend.

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So then they are in the closet and, you know, Carrie's closet

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is pretty much like our shrine.

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So she's like, listen, I need to tell you something really important SEMA.

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So Sima's like paying attention and Carrie's like, listen,

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no one touches the shoes.

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And Sima says, I get it, Carrie.

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I named all of my handbags.

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So I think they have a lot in common because you know, they're definitely into.

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The fancy shoes and the handbags and the fashion.

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So I think they're gonna end up, you know, becoming friends and, and hitting.

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And then Sima like looks around and she's like, oh, you know, what's

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missing from this room is the Peloton.

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And I guess she, she doesn't know the backstory of the Peloton

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and exactly, you know, how Mr.

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Big passed away.

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So it's a very touchy subject for Kerry.

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So the Peloton should not be mentioned.

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So, if you must mention the Peloton, do not say the word in front of Carrie,

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spell it out and do not say the word.

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It is like the forbidden word.

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When Carrie hears that word is going to set her off.

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All right.

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So next scene, Carrie is in the podcast studio and obviously Carrie's been

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going through a really tough time.

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And then.

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Chloe, who is the one with a blonde hair and she is saying

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the podcast socials suck.

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And she's like, well, she's the only one really trying.

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And she's like, yeah, well, I don't really have a choice.

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And then.

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She says to Carrie, Carrie, you haven't posted on social media in three weeks

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and she's kind of really laying into Carrie and Jackie, the guy, he actually

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used to have a thing with Chloe.

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So he's a little bit disturbed that Chloe's like going off on Carrie.

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So he's kind of sticking up for her.

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And maybe it's more than that.

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Cause I think he's pissed that he's also pissed that she.

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Dumped him.

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And he's like, you know what, I'm going to go out there and I'm going

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to talk to her because she just can't act like this and she can't do this.

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So that was funny because she literally told him off and she's like, listen,

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you only wash your towels once a year.

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So you shouldn't even be talking.

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So basically, yeah.

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Jackie, you might want to wash your towels like maybe once or twice a week,

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unless you have like a hundred towels.

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And then we go to the next scene and Charlotte and Harry are going

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to go to Lisa's apartment for the birthday dinner for Lisa's husband.

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And Charlotte says this dinner.

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This dinner is too important.

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So she's talking to her husband hearing.

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She says, Harry, this dinner is way too important and there

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are no impressive couples.

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So you better be on your, a game kind of thing.

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And she's kind of like telling him, like, can you, also try not to sweat too much.

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Ha ha.

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All right.

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And then she says that, you know, right now Harry, or like mom, friends,

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but I really want to be real for.

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All right.

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Well, listen, Charlotte, you don't really need to try that hard.

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I think that you should just be yourself.

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The friendship will come, but you're literally putting Lisa

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on a really high pedestal.

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And I don't know what's going to happen with that dynamic later because you

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have to be equals in a friendship and you're kind of putting her like she's way

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above you or she's way better than you.

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And yeah, I mean, she might.

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Be a little bit fabulous, but I mean, Charlotte, own your power girl.

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What are you doing?

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So remember Miranda's professor, Dr.

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Nia.

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I think that Miranda's finally made a little bit of a better impression

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cause she didn't make that many good impressions in episodes.

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One, two and three that they're actually going on to dinner.

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And professor Nia is very open and she starts telling her that, you

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know, she's trying to have a baby with her husband and she's been doing

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IVF, but so far it hasn't worked and she's supposed to do another round.

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But then the thing is, she's also seems to be really confused

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about if she wants kids or not.

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I think the only reason she's having kids is because she's thinking that she

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does not want to have any regrets later.

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But in reality, she's actually quite happy with her life, the way that it is.

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So I think she's a little bit confused.

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She's like, well, I mean, I have it all, but I don't know if having

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a kid is going to change that.

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And I don't know if I don't have one, am I going to have

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regrets for the rest of my life?

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So, yeah.

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I mean, there's validity there.

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I definitely think that is a hard decision.

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But, she's gonna end up making the decision that is right for her.

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And then she's going to have to live with that decision because once you

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decide something in life, I think, you know, you need to own up to that.

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Once you make a decision, you really have to stand by your decision.

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Whether it was a good decision or not.

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I think you just have to accept that you made that decision and maybe

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if it was a bad decision, you can always think about ways on how you

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can, make that decision, right.

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How you can make some changes, how you can fix things.

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But, you know, I think you do have to accept accountability for your

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actions and for your decisions.

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So we'll see where this goes, but I think if she does have a baby, you

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guys, it is going to be the cutest.

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And if she has twins, oh my God.

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Can you imagine twins?

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That would be hilarious.

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They would be so cute.

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And I'm pretty sure that Miranda would be like, oh, I can babysit them for

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you while she's drinking her wine.

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Of course.

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All right.

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So in this scene, Miranda also says that it's hard to have it all and you know,

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she's really talking about herself.

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And I think she's talking about the fact that, okay, she's

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married and she has Brady.

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And she's had a good career in the past and all this, but yeah.

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And it's hard to have it all because her marriage is really not a real marriage.

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I mean, they're not sleeping together.

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They're literally like roommates.

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They sit around and eat ice cream with chia seeds on it.

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So yeah, I mean, you know what Miranda?

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Yeah, I would agree.

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Sometimes it is hard to have it all and sometimes it's not, but it just really

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depends, but you might as well just have a good attitude about life and

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then things will probably go better.

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And if you're not really in love with Steve.

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Just divorce them and be friends.

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I mean, Brady's grown up.

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He's not a little kid now, so you don't need to be having two parents

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living together to take care of Brady.

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Brady can take care of himself, but the question is, can

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you take care of yourself?

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I don't know.

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I think maybe you need Brady more than he needs you.

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What do you guys think?

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All right.

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So Carrie is talking to Anthony, that is.

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Stanford's husband and she's telling him that she's really drawn to SEMA because

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with SEMA, she can pretend that when she's with her, that everything is okay.

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And, and also that Sima, you know, didn't know Mr.

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Big.

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So it makes it a little bit easier.

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And Anthony breaks the news.

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That Stanford wants a divorce.

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And by the way, Stanford left Carrie a note and you did not have like,

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you know, the guts to call her up.

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He should have called her up.

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I mean, why did he leave a note?

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Come on Stanford.

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So Stanford leaves a note and he says that he's going to be in

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Tokyo, managing a Tik TOK star.

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And then he also left another note for Anthony saying that he wants to do.

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Interesting.

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Well, this is actually the way that the show is going to get them off the

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show because in real life, he actually passed away, which is really sad.

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You guys, but we'll talk about that towards the end of the podcast.

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All right.

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So next scene.

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Carrie is meeting with SEMA and, you know, they're in Carrie's apartment and seem

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as like, explaining about the open house and how it went and all those things.

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And she's like, oh, by the way, I'm sorry, like I didn't see this picture

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frame and I accidentally touched it and it fell over and it broke.

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And Carrie is like, What, what are you talking about?

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What broke?

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And then she shows her the picture frame, and it was a picture of her in big that

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used to be on, you know, begs nightstand.

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And Carrie was really upset at this point.

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She was really upset and she was like, how could you, you know, break this and,

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and seem as like, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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And you know, I will get the glass replaced.

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And Carrie is like, well, listen, the glass is not replaceable, right?

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Because this was more than just a picture frame to her.

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You guys, it had sentimental value.

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It is a picture frame that she has memories of Mr.

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Big touching it and touching the glass.

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And every time that she would hold that picture.

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It would be her way of being close to Mr.

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Big, because she remembers that he was always touching the glass.

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And if she puts her fingers on the glass, it's going to make

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her feel connected to him.

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And now she's like, what do I do now?

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You know, it's hitting her so slowly, like in, you know, episode four it's,

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it's hitting her and she's like, he's gone and it's broken and no one can figure.

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And when she's saying no one can fix it.

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It's not about the glass.

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It's about the fact that Mr.

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Big is gone and he's never coming back and no one can fix that.

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And that is not fixable.

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And now it just a reminder to her when the glass broke that

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she's broken now because Mr.

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Big is gone and she's going to have to go through that healing process and

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it's going to be a little bit tough.

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Right.

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All right.

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So then.

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SEMA continues to apologize.

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And you know, Carrie's still kind of like, well, not really having it.

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And then as like, well, you know, I think you did something wrong too,

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because when they were talking about the whole like dating thing and SEMA

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is single and she's still looking for someone and they were talking about this

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over lunch one day or something, And Carrie said to SEMA, it's great that

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you're still putting yourself out there.

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So to SEMA, that comment was offensive because Carrie used the word still.

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And what does that word still mean?

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So to SEMA, SEMA was like, well, am I supposed to stop looking

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for a man because I'm older now.

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And I may just supposed to give up and go crawl away and die.

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So.

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But the thing is when Carrie said that Carrie didn't really mean it that way

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and didn't mean any harm again, when it comes to friendships, it's that people

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take things, how they want to take them.

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And sometimes that can be very problematic and it can cause people to not be from.

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For the wrong reasons.

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And people are sadly throwing friendships away because they

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take something the wrong way.

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They take it that the way they want to take it, instead of having a conversation

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with a friend and saying, you know, it hurt my feelings that you said this to

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me, they don't have that conversation.

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So people now.

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You know what you're broken.

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You need to have those conversations.

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You need to learn how to communicate better.

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And if you can communicate better, you'll have better friendships

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instead of just taking your friends and throwing them in the trash.

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Like they never mattered.

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So, you know, keep that in mind, have a conversation.

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Communication is key in any relationship that you have and you have to communicate.

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If you don't communicate, you know, in your marriage, your marriage is going to

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end because of the lack of communication.

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Because of the misunderstandings.

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So if you do have a fight with your husband or with your wife or with a

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friend or even it's not a fight, it's just a misunderstanding, reach out

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to them and have that conversation.

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Don't just let that sit there because then what happens is it's going to end up.

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Like ruining friendships.

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And so when this particular scene, after Carrie expressed how she felt

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and SEMA apologized, and she did a genuinely, cause she literally must

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apologize like seven times and then.

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SEMA expressed how she felt about the situation of the comment that Carrie made

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and Carrie communicated and said, I'm sorry that you felt that way, but you

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know, I didn't mean it that way at all.

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So if it came across a certain way, I'm so sorry.

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And then what happened is, and just like that, they looked at each other

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and they said, you know, This is stupid.

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We don't need to be arguing about this.

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Like let bygones be bygones.

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And just like that they're real friendship started.

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that was a beautiful scene and I look forward to seeing their friendship

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So if you watch, till the end, like after the credits, They showed a scene

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where they had a photo Stanford, who in real life, his name is Willie Garson.

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So Willie Garson passed away and you know, it's really sad.

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So that's why I think they're showing him in Tokyo and all this,

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and he's getting into divorce.

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Cause they're just going to say, well, he moved to Tokyo.

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Right.

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And that's it.

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and then they showed a photo of him and underneath that his photo was a

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quote and this is what the quote said.

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It's.

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Be kind to each other, always.

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So remember that be kind to each other always.

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And I think that that is a good motto to live your life by.

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And I hope that you guys have an amazing Christmas.

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If you do celebrate Christmas, I hope you have a magical Christmas filled with joy.

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And also keep in mind that the holidays and the Christmas season is not.

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Happy for everyone.

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There's a lot of people that lost their loved ones because of COVID.

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There's a lot of people that have lost their loved ones

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because of cancer or other things.

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And there's a lot of people that are spending the holidays alone and they're

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isolated, because of the pandemic.

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So reach out to people that you care about and.

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You know, just know that every, everyone is not going to have the same experience.

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So be cognizant of that, if you're going to go out to the store to run and get

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some last minute items, you know, buy someone a meal, like a homeless person.

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If you see them like buy them a meal by the Mustang.

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Show some compassion because it is the season of giving.

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And when you give out into the universe, it's going to come back to you.

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All right.

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And then a few little clips from, the next episode.

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So I'm like, what the hell?

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So they're showing that Carrie needs hip surgery.

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All right.

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So I don't know, Carrie, like fell, like if she did, that would be one thing.

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But even then, like, she's not that.

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To be having hip surgery, but I get it.

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If you're injured, you could need hip surgery.

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But if they're just saying that she needs hip surgery in general, it's

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like, why are they showing the whole cast to be portrayed as so old?

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I mean, I don't know.

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It's just a little bit like, why is this whole ageism thing there

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where it's like, they're just showing them in a certain way.

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I don't know.

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We'll see.

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But it is interesting that her physical therapist.

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Because they showed him his name is Travis.

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He's pretty hot.

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And he looks really familiar.

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I cannot pinpoint what show or series I've seen him on.

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I it's like at the tip of my tongue and I've seen him on some Netflix series

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or something, but I can't remember.

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So you guys know like message me are, you know, email me, let me know.

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Cause I'm kind of curious, like where have I seen him before?

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So anyway, you guys have a amazing.

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Merry Christmas and happy holidays.